Pure love.

You know how they say love is pure?

The way I see it, it is the only gift you keep giving without ever expecting anything in return, and the giving you give is rewarding enough, it’s unselfish, pure.

Everything else is just liking or infatuation.

Some might say it is hard to differentiate the two, but it’s not, not at all, because boy…I tell ya….Love, Love can get pretty crazy. Because people can get quite pissed off, disappointed and defensive when their vision of love is threatened, just like with Santa when we are kids…but Love, Love is real – unlike Santa or Easter bunny.

You never know what to expect, it gives you ultimate high and takes you to the all time lows, and this is precisely so because there is no calculating risks, bargaining or negotiating, it’s just BAM! You jump! And then for a while it’s like – SWOOSH! – Fabulous paradise islands with just you two, and then later – it’s like a protective bubble of safety net and support, and then even later it’s more like – trying not to break the bubble and not let anyone else in.

There is no to much thinking involved really, no risk assessment, no logic, no fear…that’s why it is so magical, special and rare these days. But don’t be mistaken, it doesn’t just live on its own. It doesn’t just feed of itself, it needs to be nurtured, never taken for granted, communicated and acted upon every day, and it shouldn’t become a boring routine but a lifestyle, preciously protected, held not to hard but not to lose either – just like holding a butterfly.

Can it last forever? I don’t know, nobody came back from forever to tell the story, but why not try?J

This way at least there is no coulda, woulda, shoulda….

Have you been recently hurt? You say trying again to give your all is stupid? 

I say its brave.

Just JUMP lovelies! 

"Love is a fabric which never fades, no matter how often it is washed in the water of adversity and grief."

Jealousy.

Many think of jealousy as something dire,

Yet its definition saids it shows our desire,

As long as it stays within the lines,

There is no feeling it undermines.

So don’t think of it as a negative feeling,

Think of it as proof she is scared to lose you,

 And that she finds you appealing.

Maybe it’s still early and you don’t know me that well,

Maybe wrong assumptions rang that warning bell.

Why not keep our hearts open?  So if we ever share the keys,

I am sure the relationship will remain as light as the breeze.

I don’t want you to wear the sign reservada,

Our relationship shouldn’t force you to sacrifice nada.

I want you to wear my invisible hug,

To hold you tighter when you are lonely and need a snug,

To remind you I care for you even when you’re mad,

To prove to you l’ll do everything possible to never see you sad.

To know that what I am saying is honest and true,

To remind you that I am always thinking of you.

TRUST.

There are exactly two ways to make it true – you give it to him, he gives it to you.

It should be like this from the start, no acting nor faking – it comes from the heart.

It’s precious and rare, value and cherish it,

It’s the most important thing you share - It shows how much you care. 

Don’t risk this precious trust for the sake of an easy lust,

  It could end with bunch of lies which often turn to tears in her trusting eyes.  

Your current little lust can turn your dreams into dust;

 Truth is a must when you are trying to earn her trust.

Recipe is simple – be true from the start,

Make your decisions smart,

In a couple be an equal part,

If your behavior is unjust,

Care enough to adjust – do it, all to keep her trust.